Late in his coaching tenure at UNC there was some hushed
speculation regarding whether the game might be passing Coach Dean Smith by. I’m
ashamed to admit that I occasionally entertained that possibility. Now I know
differently.
As UNC and Tar Heel nation work to recover from a painful chapter in our storied history; as we reflect on the
professionalization of college athletics and the rampant self-aggrandizement inherent
in the “brand of me” & “an army of one;” it seems clear to me now. The game wasn’t passing him by, we were
losing our way.
Now, I know we can’t go back to some naively idealized version
of the good ‘ole days. But it is certainly possible to reclaim & recommit
to values & virtues that have always served us well beyond the court or
field. Let’s remember that sports are a powerful means to an end; not the end
of wealth or fame although that comes for a very elite few. It is the means to
the end of teamwork, determination, hustle, learning to celebrate with humility
and deal with disappointment & failure with grace. It is a means for
developing perseverance and resilience and a means for camaraderie &
connection. It is a means for learning to be coachable while also honing your
leadership skills.
Sports are indeed a great laboratory for learning how to win…in
life. And Dean Smith kept his eye on that ball; that winning in life is more
important than winning on the court and that winning in life is about so much
more than money or immediate success. Winning in life is about relationships –
about making a difference; whatever difference one can make…and then pointing
back to whoever helped you score.
Despite our frequent desire to claim otherwise, there are no
self-made people. Dean Smith understood, taught & modelled that so much
better than most. Whether you are a Tar Heel or not, you’re part of a team. You
have a role to play. And, like it or not, we need each other.
My coaching will likely never take place on anything bigger
than a little league field. But I hope that the way I coach and parent and
mentor and live will reflect much of how Dean Smith coached; will reflect the
Carolina Way which at its core is simply a way that leads to humility, growth, the
intimate connections of community, generosity, and meaning from
this precious gift we call life.
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